If the environmental changes are causing pain then we will be forced to move to the next level values.
Life conditions >
Success is an emergent
Cyclical – coming around to the same spot a higher, similar or lower level.
Double Helix – left and right, two sided, how we cope with either side.
“Emergent, cyclical, double helix, model of adult biophysical systems development.”
The model lays out deep forces in human nature which shapes our values. Memes are psychosocial virus’ that move from mind to mind.
(influence is about transfer of powerful memes)
You can’t recognise the channels that are above you. Each level has a set of assumptions and code of conduct… resistance and conflict reflects a persons vMemes.
There are core intelligences that can change.
Circumstances must FORCE CHANGE.
People motivated by pleasure move quickly.
People motivated by pain move more slowly.
Core values and collective intelligences can influence individuals and cultures.
Each system can be healthy and unhealthy… any stage can lead to undesirable outcomes.
Life Circumstances Demand Change!
- The current is not acceptable
- Change in thinking
- Change in values
Paul valued hard work and was independent but didn’t value money, therefore he didn’t have any.
If you’re looking at things from a me-centric
How is “being unhealthy” serving them.
(Why = justification, what / how = introspection)
Find out their model of the world… what do you think might have to change to becoming healthy / wealthy / educated…
“Have I got something for you…” doesn’t work well. Questioning to help people discover themselves is a better path.
The level of thinking and awareness must change.
The collective agreements you work under have to change.
“Awaken to who you are and learn to become whoever you’re capable of becoming.”
Paul paraphrasing – Robert Louis Stevenson
Conflict is when the unwritten rules are broken… mostly from childhood to cope with something that couldn’t be solved.
Tony Robbins – his first wife got really upset with one of his behaviours that he was unaware of. He didn’t get her a towel.
Mostly comes from subconscious rules being imposed on others. > arguments, withdrawal, sulking etc.
Feeling self needs to be fed… drama or love or …